Neighbors who let me throw my extra bag of trash that won’t fit in my trash can into their trash can the night before trash day, the grace that I don’t deserve, staying up till 11:30pm on a worknight to hang out and laugh with my husband, free couches!, playing in the pool in the backyard with my husband and son, dancing barefoot, my son’s giggle, sore muscles, birthday parties to go to!, the feeling of accomplishment after working outdoors, a house to call my own, a family to love, a deep breath to take.