Note: 2012 Year in Review for those interested.
Where were you when 2013 began?
SLEEPING! I worked New Years Eve and New Years Day on dayshift, so I needed the sleep. Plus, everything going on in my life at that time (Cancer, job losses, family overrunning my house, etc) really made me not feel like a party was in order.
Who were you with?
Fankie and Lucky off and on. I snuggled with Benjamin before he went to bed, and Justin came in and tucked me in, but I fell asleep by myself. I don’t think Justin got in bed before midnight either.
Was 2013 a good year for you?
Eh, it has its ups and downs. There was a lot of chemo, radiation, death, etc in the early part of the year and work was INSANE, I struggled to develop myself as a leader and I was pregnant. So, no, not really, but it set the stage for 2014 to be pretty amazing AND ended in the birth of my second son — so there is a lot of redemption there, obviously.
What countries/states did you visit?
Visited Tennessee in the spring and Mississippi in the early summer.
Did you keep your new years’ resolutions?
Nope. I did good till I got pregnant though!
Did anyone close to you give birth?
Yes! Megan had Brooklyn April 20th, Niki had Emryn December 23rd, and I gave birth too
Did anyone close to you die?
I found out sometime after the first of the year that my Aunt Karen passed away at the end of 2012. She was my Dad’s sister and the last time I saw her was at my Grandmother’s funeral. We were never close – estranged, I think the word would be – but it was still sad to learn of her passing.
In May and June we lost Justin’s grandparents on his Dad’s side – Mimi and Papaw. It was the first time Benjamin really had dealt with death. He’s still a little too young to really understand, but he did pretty good.
Not-as-close-but-still-hit-me, one of our officers lost his wife to cancer. Christine was an amazing lady. Casey’s father also passed away – Casey is one of my younger brother’s best friends, and like a brother to me. Very sad… but Casey did an amazing job at the service.
What date from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
December 31st, 2013 – The date we welcomed Eli Leonard Sullivan into the world!
What did you do in 2013 that you’d never done before?
Saw a counselor. That was an interesting experience. Had a second pregnancy and a delivery in a hospital.
Did you have fun in 2013?
I did. I also worked really, really hard.
What do you wish you’d done more of?
Exercised!! I got sick, tired, and large and stopped doing it like I needed to.
What do you wish you’d done less of?
Had less heartburn? This question is always so hard.
What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I was 29 years old, and Teresa and I went and saw Sara Bareilles in concert once I got off work. All in all it was a really fun day.
What did you want and get?
My husband surprised me with a kindle paperwhite!! I love it a LOT and read a LOT more than I did last year!! He is the best!!!
What did you want and not get?
I hope people don’t take this the wrong way, but I was hoping to have a girl for my second child. Justin and I really wanted one of each. However, we tried for several months to have a girl (there are ways to try to tip the scales in favor of one), and during the months we were giving it a break (so we wouldn’t have a November or December baby) we got pregnant with Eli. So, all in all, I’d have to say that God was pretty clear this was what he wanted. Now that he’s here, of course, I can’t imagine having anything other than his beautiful face. I did offhandedly mention to Justin that I hoped this little boy had brown hair, and BOY did that happen!
I also wanted a new refrigerator, but that’s on the “goal” list for 2014.
Whose behavior merited celebration?
Benjamin’s! We successfully potty trained this year (yay!) and he is growing up to be a very bright young man. He has an awesome personality and is well liked by pretty much everyone he comes in contact with. He has a LOT of charisma (which is normal, I know, for some kids this age) and is learning about the importance of good behavior. He’s also extremely excited about his new baby brother – he loves to snuggle him and give him kisses.
Also, the staff in the Communications Division where I work. We had a ridiculously stressful year with TONS of upgrades, mandatory training, overtime and very little to give them to thank them for all their hard work. I think everyone surviving the upgrades of 2013 with their sanity intact was pretty awesome.
Whose behavior made you appalled, depressed, or sad?
I had a few issues with a few people; I don’t tend to get appalled depressed or sad, just disappointed.
Did somebody treat you badly in 2013?
Meh. I don’t know. I don’t think so, really.
Who were some new people you met?
Leah, the new records supervisor, who is super cool.
What was your favorite month of 2013?
December. The rest of the year pretty much sucked, but December is always full of Christmas anticipation and plus I HAD A BABY!
What was your favorite moment of the year?
I was thinking, of course, that my son’s birth would be my favorite moment. But he came out with trouble breathing and was pale and everyone was worried about him, so that kind of bummed me out. I think my favorite moment is two things – the first is when we told Benjamin he was going to have a baby brother. He was so excited!! The second moment was when Justin told me he’d eaten lunch the 31st with my emergency $20. That requires a bit of back story. See, my Mom always carried an emergency $20 dollar bill in her wallet. I remember her pulling it out every once in a while – when she really needed it (and once when she was craving chocolate and we were broke, hah!) and commenting about how important it was to have it. The day we went to the hospital in labor, Justin forgot his wallet at home. And, because we didn’t plan ahead well enough, we hadn’t eaten prior to getting to the hospital. So he was starving and when he finally got to sneak away to grab some food he used my emergency $20 that I keep in my purse. I didn’t realize any of this until that night, when I realized he’d eaten but not had his wallet. When he told me he used the emergency $20 I started crying, because I really miss my Mom (especially on big days like the birth of my son) and something that was SO HER was used, and it was kind of like she was here in spirit, even though she can’t be here to hold her grandson there’s still a part of her that I carry with me, and that helps, and I’m crying again. Dang it. So yeah. Getting to have that at Eli’s birth was pretty amazing.
What was your least favorite moment of the year?
Probably the few minutes after Eli’s birth where he wasn’t getting enough oxygen and I looked at his little arm and it was ash grey. So not cool. So glad he recovered quickly!
What was your favorite TV program?
I don’t really have time for TV most the time, but I did watch Walking Dead and enjoy that, and I’m getting into Burn Notice.
What was the best book you read?
Ender’s Game by Orson Scott Card. It had been on my list to read for a few years because it came highly recommended by my friend Maria, and it was definitely well worth the wait. I may or may not have sobbed at the end of the book.
What were your favorite films of this year?
The Desolation of Smaug is definitely the best, hands down. SO glad it was better than the first Hobbit movie!!! I also REALLY liked “White House Down”. I thought it was going to be a lame action movie with lots of eye candy, but oddly enough it had great action, plot, acting and Jamie Foxx rocked it as the President. Plus, who doesn’t love to watch Roland Emmerich blow up the White House?
Runner ups: Man of Steele, Star Trek Into Darkness, and very far below that (mainly for the war scene at the end), Enders Game.
What was your favorite video game you played this year?
Diablo III!!! I was very excited they rolled it out for the PS3.
What was your favorite new technology/application?
Cozi! Phone calendar app that is more user friendly than Google (once you get used to it).
What was your greatest musical discovery?
“Say Something” by A Great Big World. It’s not very often that a piece of music is really something I would consider “art” but this is absolutely art at it’s finest. It’s a song that can mean many things to many people. Wonderful.
“I see Fire” by Ed Sheeran. It’s the song that plays during the credits of The Desolation of Smaug and I’m kind of in love with it. It played on repeat while I was in labor with Eli.
What was the best thing you bought?
What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Carrying another baby!
What was your biggest failure?
Gained too much weight (in my personal opinion, doctor had no issues but I wish I had gained less)
Did you suffer illness or injury?
My allergy stuff. Still.
Where did most of your money go?
Debt, food, and 800 dollars to getting a dead tree off the property. Oh, the joys of homeownership!
What kept you sane?
I’m not entirely sure I stayed sane this year, but the thought that “this too shall pass” was very helpful.
What political issue stirred you the most?
Who did you miss?
My family and Amy.
What did you get really, really, really excited about?
HAVING ANOTHER BABY!!! !
Compared to this time last year, are you:
I. happier or sadder? Hmm. Hard to say. Last year at this time Justin told me we could try for a second baby, now I have the baby! But I’ve also had a very trying year at work. If I had still been pregnant at the end of the year I would have been about the same, I suppose, but since I’ve had Eli I’m definitely happier
ii. thinner or fatter? FATTER
iii. richer or poorer? POORER
Did you fall in love in 2013?
Over and over again!
Did you lose anything important this year?
What was your proudest moment of 2013?
Giving birth. There’s really not much that can top that, honestly. It’s hard work!
What was your most embarrassing moment of 2013?
Hahaha, giving birth!
(On a scale of: Very Good, Good, Fairly Good, Fairly Bad, Bad, Very Bad)
• Relational Health – Good
• Emotional Health – Fairly good
• Physical Health – Fairly bad
• Social Health – Bad
• Spiritual Health – Fairly bad
• Intellectual Health – Fairly good
• Financial Health – Good
In the future (authors note: filled this out in early 2014 so it wasn’t in the future, just the recent past):
How will you be spending Christmas?
I spent Christmas lounging around the house, feeling very 2 days overdue with a swollen belly, watching Justin and Benjamin enjoy their presents.
How will you be spending New Years?
I was in the hospital after delivering a baby – I looked up at the clock, whispered “Happy New Years, Baby” to Justin and went back to sleep.
What would you like to have in 2014 that you lacked in 2013?
Smooth moves. One of the things Justin got me for Christmas was the promise that we’d take dancing lessons sometime this year!
What are your plans for 2014?
Raise baby, take Benjamin to see “real snow”, have a family reunion, pay off hospital bills / continue to save money, buy a fridge.
Will you make any new years resolutions for 2014?
I didn’t bother. I’ve got a newborn and a toddler. Keeping up will be my resolution!
Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013:
You don’t become the person you want to be overnight, and you usually have to make a lot of mistakes in the process. I’ve learned this lesson before, but this year was a good reminder.
Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
And I am feeling so small.
It was over my head
I know nothing at all.